Tuesday, March 21, 2006

Swami Vivekananda's view on Love

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her and with some water and held it before me, and said

"You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."
This was how I saw it : As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers around it and try to possess it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds. This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love - they try to possess it, they demand, they expect and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you. For, love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring.


Blogger Srini said...

You are the perfect lover boy if you follow this to the last letter and I know you surely will. Bless the gal in your life for she is fortunate to have your association and bless our friendship that has come a long way! :)

Tue Jan 04, 01:24:00 PM 2005  
Blogger Nirek said...

lovely words on love man!

Thu Mar 23, 01:04:00 PM 2006  

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